Learning that you have to get a life-changing surgery can be one of the scariest experiences of your life. Take it from me. I’ve been there. Being told that a part of your body is no longer functioning the way it’s supposed to, so now you’re needing to go under the knife to have it corrected is nerve wracking. Plus, on top of that you’ll now have to wear and carry around a pouch that holds on the urine or stool that your body can eliminate the natural way could make anyone wonder if life will ever be enjoyable or the same again. Unfortunately, that’s a yes and no answer. No, your life may never quite be the same again, but that doesn’t mean it is the end of your life, nor does it mean it’s the end of doing things you enjoy. In fact, with a little knowledge and a community of people around you who love and care about you, you can live a full and fulling life without having to sacrifice the things you love the most. Hopefully, I can help put your mind at ease, even if it’s just a little bit.
First things first though, let me start by giving you a little insight into what an Ostomy is and why it may be necessary. An Ostomy is a surgical procedure, often lifesaving, that will allow bodily waste to pass through a surgically created stoma (an opening that is located on the abdomen) and in most cases into an ostomy bag or ‘pouch’. Sometimes it is also possible for something called a continent diversion surgery, which means the pouch is placed internally through a surgical process rather than being placed externally. The type of procedure you have will depend on your condition and what your doctor believes is best.
There are many different reasons as to why an ostomy may be necessary, however the most likely conditions are birth defects, cancer, inflammatory bowel disease, diverticulitis, incontinence, and in some cases severe abdominal or pelvic trauma. Depending on your condition you could receive one of three different possible Ostomy surgeries. Those include a colostomy (an opening of the large intestine), a urostomy (a procedure that diverts urine away from a diseased or defective bladder), and an ileostomy (an opening in the lowest part of the small intestine and is in most cases permanent.)
No matter the type of ostomy you receive, life will change. But that doesn’t mean it has to change for the worst. It just means that you may have to get used to a new normal. One of the best things you can do to prepare for getting an ostomy is to learn as much as you can about the procedure. This can help ease your mind of all the unknowns that you’re about to face. Also, it’s important to note that not all ostomies are permanent. Oftentimes, they can be temporary, which means you can take heart knowing that your new normal will be short lived.
Another important thing to do, is surround yourself with family and loved ones. You’ll need all the support you can get during your adjusting period, and there is no shame in asking for help. Especially during your recovery from surgery. And the most important thing to remember is this, no matter what, this doesn’t change who you are. You are still you, just maybe with a new accessory. With a little patience, help, and knowledge you can and will live a full and active life. So, keep calm and ostomy on.
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